I didn't wait to be asked. I was always making a list and changing it from the moment we split. I was ready before she was.
Yep, me too.
Well I have a list... I've been making it a long time too! But I am just surprised that we are waiting until just moments before to go over these things
IMHO, most lawyers have so many clients, its easier to converse right before the hearing so that they have fresh info and don't confuse your case with another.
kathlene oh! Okay that makes sense! Makes me feel better about it too
Exactly right kathlene! It will be fresh in her mind. Fingers crossed for you Donita!!
Agreed. BE READY! Print out quick bullet points for your lawyer. Focus on main issues. Know facts and choose 2-4 things you will DIE over. The rest just let them go. Know that you won't get everything you want but don't let your ex see how upset it makes you. Be cool. ;)
Yup. I work at a law firm. We don't to family law, but it's true across the board. It's impossible for them to keep all the info in their heads