The knots back in my throat and the tears are non stop again I hate this why can he move so fast 21 years I don’t understand. I keep getting knocked back to this heartbreak I’m so sick of crying but the tears don’t
Don't waste your time trying to "understand" because you never will.
My ex recently got remarried (time #3 for him), not even 10 months after the divorce was final. It really hurt. Still kind of does.
I understand. It’s an awful feeling. I felt the same way.
I have heard time and time again that men just can't be alone. I'm pretty sure it's true. I fell for my ex when he was going through a divorce with his first wife. Then, 2weeks after our almost 13 yr marriage, he was off to his next victim. Don't be crushed, you got this girl! I never thought I could go at this alone, but I've been doing it for over a year now. Men are babies, remember that! He may have "moved on" but it's only because he is a worthless piece of shit who can't hack it on his own. Men are literally the weaker sex!
Set goals for what you want to accomplish on the next year for yourself and with your kids to give you peace and stability. You are stronger than you know and don't need to run to another man to feel whole and happy. It will get easier if you focus on improving you instead of in what he is doing.
I'm so sorry this has knocked you down, but you will get back up. Hugs.
I can relate it's an awful feeling. Was married 28 yrs, divorced 1yr 5 mos when my Ex remarried. Which proves he checked out LONG before he decided to leave. Huggs and prayers to you
Your doing it right going through all these tough emotions. You will contact out the other side healthy & ready for your new start. He won't he's hiding behind a new woman. Why do you think so many fast new marriages fail? Because these dumb asses don't suck up their pain they paper over it & do exactly the same again. You will be ok
Emotions are rough but remember why you're where you are today, you deserved better ~ stay strong ❤️❤️❤️
I'm sorry. He is trying his best to reconstruct his life in a misguided effort to forget how he treated you. In his mind, he can't be the monster that upended your world if another woman can love him. It's why I would NEVER date a man who is separated, or newly divorced. They are ALWAYS, IMO, looking for a bandaid for their soul.
It's not you. He is weak and pathetic. He can't handle life on his own and needs someone to take care of him. He doesn't love her he is using her. Be strong knowing you can do it.
It won’t last. He hasn’t taken time to reflect on what he did wrong in your relationship. He just wants companionship and will mess this one up, too. Wait and see.
I promise. One day you will look back at this moment and wonder why you were crying over this. Whether that new marriage crashes and burns or not, remember that he is someone else's problem now. Remember why you got divorced in the first place. Maybe you're mourning the loss of what you thought your life was going to be like but if you truly look at the man he is, I bet your tears will stop. We women are so much stronger than we give ourselves credit for. We give birth to little humans, for God's sake! No man could ever do this! Just look what happens when they get a cold!!! They can't deal with it! YOU, Carolyn, WILL get thru this and when you do, you'll be much wiser and stronger than you ever thought you could be. Don't think for a second this is something you're lacking because it's not. You will move past this moment. Use it to empower yourself. Your best revenge (if that's what you want to call it) is to be a strong, independent and successful woman who's life became better because she chose it to be.
Your ex is a selfish, immature boy. When the honeymoon is over, she’ll be stuck with that mess! Rejoice in your freedom as you have lost nothing valuable BUT gained a promising future! Is anyone capable of this cruelty towards you deserving of your tears?? Answer: ABSOLUTELY NOT!!! Goodbye good riddance & good luck! They’re-both going to need plenty of it!